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From Buhera With Boldness: The Story Behind Buhera Signature

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From Buhera With Boldness: The Story Behind Buhera Signature In a world where fashion often borrows too much and dares too little, Buhera Signature is a breath of fresh African air. Founded by Zimbabwean sisters Eunice and her creative partner-in-crime (yes, it’s a family affair!), this fashion house is shaking up the bridal and red carpet scene with fearless, culture-rich designs that tell powerful stories. Born in the rural heartbeat of Zimbabwe—Buhera—and shaped by the proud traditions of Eswatini, Eunice and her sister grew up surrounded by a culture that was unashamed, loud, and boldly expressive. The Swazi spirit inspired them to embrace their own Zimbabwean identity even more fiercely, and in that mix of longing for home and love for culture, Buhera Signature was born.  “We come from a rural village called Buhera and we’re here trying to make our mark in the fashion industry,” Eunice shares. And what a mark they’re making. Their name alone has become a magnet for clients: “I...

JezTheStylist 101: How to Find Your Fashion Style

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JezTheStylist 101: How to Find Your Fashion Style Lately, I’ve been getting flooded with messages like, “Jez, how do I find my fashion style?” or “I don’t even think I have one!” And to that, I say — take a deep breath. You're not alone, and you're not lost. You're just at the beginning of your style journey. And guess what? I’m here to walk that road with you. Fashion is personal. It’s never just about clothes. It’s about who you are, how you feel, where you come from, and even where you’re going. Some of us are influenced by our upbringing — maybe it was your mother’s Sunday best, your dad’s uniform, or your community’s dress code. Others are shaped by culture, religion, people we admire, or simply the environment we live in. And then there are those of us who just love a good trend and can’t resist the pull of a TikTok aesthetic. So today, I want to take you through a few fashion styles I know and love — styles I’ve either tried, admired, or studied — in the hope that th...

The Power of Association: Who’s Holding Your Ladder

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The Power of Association: Who’s Holding Your Ladder You know that phrase, “Show me your friends, and I’ll tell you who you are”? It may sound cliché, but it still rings true like a bell in a quiet room. The people we surround ourselves with aren't just companions — they’re mirrors, mentors, and sometimes... messes. But in this life, the power of association can either unlock doors or lock you in cages you never meant to enter. Let’s talk about it. In our day-to-day life, we often overlook just how deeply we’re influenced by the people in our circle. Ever notice how you start picking up a friend’s slang, their habits — even their mindset? That’s not a coincidence. That’s the power of proximity. If you walk with people who complain all the time, negativity becomes second nature. But if you surround yourself with those who speak life, dream big, and live with purpose? You start catching that fire too. Think about it: You don’t have to steal to be seen as a thief. Just be constantly se...

BLUE SMOKE: The Street Prophet with Vintage Fire

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BLUE SMOKE: The Street Prophet with Vintage Fire In the heart of Harare, where style meets soul and dreams are stitched into denim and dust, there walks a man known simply as Blue Smoke. You can’t miss him — not just because of his bold silhouettes or his eye for layering textures, but because he carries something rare: presence. A creative force, a fashion rebel, and a visionary with the grit to build his own lane, Blue Smoke is what we like to call a dare-to-dream kind of guy. He doesn’t just wear clothes — he speaks through them. His style is a curated fusion of high-end streetwear and vintage charm, layered with intention and unapologetic flair. He grew up inspired by nature, art, and the unfiltered energy of 90s films, early 2000s rap videos, and skater culture. While others saw clothing as necessity, he saw it as a canvas. He would scour thrift stores for pieces with history — worn-in jackets, aged tees, pants that whispered stories of another decade — and merge them with modern ...

Not All Heroes Wear Capes – A Father’s Day Tribute

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Not All Heroes Wear Capes – A Father’s Day Tribute Today, as the world celebrates Father’s Day, I find myself reflecting deeply on what fatherhood truly means. You see, many people still believe that being a father is simply about bringing a child into the world. But in my eyes, fatherhood goes far beyond biology—it is about showing up, rooting for your children, shaping their hearts and minds, holding space for their dreams, and being a rock through the storms of life. Not all heroes wear capes. Some wear work boots, some wear old t-shirts, and some wear the quiet courage of sacrifice and love. I am incredibly blessed to have grown up surrounded by such heroes—my grandfather, my uncles, and my brothers—each of them stepping into the role of fatherhood with so much grace, love, and presence. They didn’t just provide; they were present. And trust me, in a world where “presence” is often overlooked, that meant everything. I’ve had the rare gift of being raised by men who didn’t shy away ...

Thrift Like a Pro: Budget Babe Secrets from Zim to Tokyo

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Thrift Like a Pro: Budget Babe Secrets from Zim to Tokyo This is not a paid ad. This is just your girl, sharing her style secrets — one budget outfit at a time. There was a time in my life when my budget was tighter than my favorite pair of skinny jeans, but one thing about me: I was never going to let that stop me from looking good. Whether I was heading to work, attending an event, or simply walking around Harare, I believed in showing up as that girl — stylish, put together, and most importantly, authentic to myself. So many people used to ask me, “Where did you get those jeans?” or “How do you always look so fashionable without breaking the bank?” And the truth is, my fashion journey was built on the backbone of thrift stores and local gems that kept me looking like a whole Pinterest board — without the price tag of one. Let me put you on to a few of the stores that carried me through some of my best-dressed seasons in Zimbabwe. If you're a girl on a budget, a fashion lover, or...

Sadza, Finger Food Royalty."

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 “Sadza, Finger Food Royalty." By Jez of Wander and Weave A plate of sadza, white and bold, Steam curling like stories once told. Not just maize that's stirred with grace— But the sacred soul of a Zimbabwean place. No fork, no problem—it’s finger food royalty, We scoop and swirl with cultural loyalty. In every bite, a tale is spun, Of family fires and setting sun. In our home, sacks of maize stood tall, A golden sign of wealth to all. "Une chibage?"—you’ve made it for real, That was the flex, that was the feel. Sadza wasn’t just a meal to serve, It was our pride, our nation’s nerve. Sadza isn’t just eaten—it’s experienced, you see, A symbol of strength and unity. I remember plates we used to share, Elbows flying, no time to spare. If you paused to drink—ah, rookie move! Your portion vanished with family groove. We didn’t just eat—we gathered and grew, Stories flowed, and laughter too. The pot was hot, but the moments were warmer, Sadza and love—there’s no dish calmer...

Brows Before Barcodes: How Faith Built a Beauty Empire from the Ground Up

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Brows Before Barcodes: How Faith Built a Beauty Empire from the Ground Up If you’ve ever doubted the power of lip gloss, grit, and prayer—Faith is here to change your mind. Before she was the founder of House of Beauty, a one-stop glam hub for makeup, hair, and nails, Faith was scanning groceries as a till operator. Yep—before she beat faces, she was bagging tomatoes. But deep down, she knew there was something more. Something... beautiful. So, what did she do? She started small. Like, $5-a-face small. With every paycheck, she added to her makeup kit. Then came lockdown—and while the world was bingeing Netflix, Faith was bingeing makeup tutorials on YouTube like her life depended on it. (Spoiler alert: her glow-up did depend on it.) With fierce self-belief and a “God’s got me” mindset, she launched herself into the world of beauty—no roadmap, no rich uncle, just pure go mode. “I had so much trust in myself,” she says. And that trust? It turned into bookings, then weddings, then brands ...

The Triangle That Isn’t Always Equal – Navigating Three-Way Relationships

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Okay, let’s start here – I know lately I haven’t been writing much about food, fashion, or DIYs, but bear with me for a minute. I’ve got some drafts to clear out of my soul first – and sometimes, that means sharing the hard, messy stuff we deal with daily. Let’s talk about three-way relationships. No, not the romantic kind – I mean the kind that show up in friendships, sisterhoods, and family bonds. I don’t know if you’ve ever been in a space where you’re surrounded by people you care deeply about, yet you still feel alone. Not because they don't love you — but because somehow, there's always a pair within the trio, and you’re the one orbiting around their bond. You’re there, physically present, emotionally available, but spiritually out of sync. Conversations start with, “I think I already told you this,” or “I had already talked to her about it, but you can come along too.” And boom, just like that, you realize… you weren’t part of the decision. You were just being updated, l...