Wander and Weave

Your Womb Is Not Community Property June is World Infertility Awareness Month, a time dedicated to raising awareness, breaking stigma, and supporting the millions of people around the world who are navigating fertility challenges, pregnancy loss, and the often complicated journey of building a family. While infertility affects an estimated one in six people globally, it remains one of the least understood and most stigmatized health issues, particularly in many African communities where conversations around fertility are often clouded by cultural expectations, assumptions, and judgment. Growing up in Zimbabwe, many of us were raised to believe that marriage and children naturally go hand in hand. For generations, parenthood has been viewed as one of life's greatest milestones, and there is nothing wrong with celebrating family and children. However, somewhere along the way, society developed an unhealthy habit of turning other people's reproductive journeys into public business...

The Art of Selling Air: How Social Media Can Convince Us to Buy Almost Anything The other day, I was mindlessly scrolling through social media when a thought suddenly hit me. Somewhere between a skincare recommendation, a fashion haul, and someone enthusiastically explaining why a certain product had completely changed their life, I found myself wondering: when did it become so easy to sell absolutely anything to people? And before anyone thinks I'm pointing fingers, let me confess that I'm part of this generation too. I've bought products because someone I admired recommended them. I've clicked links because a creator I follow made something look life-changing. I've been persuaded by aesthetics, confidence, and clever marketing more times than I'd like to admit. That's what makes this topic so fascinating to me. We are living in an era where almost anything can become a trend, a business, or a million-dollar idea if it's packaged well enough. A while ag...

If there is one website that can divide a room faster than pineapple on pizza, it's SHEIN. Mention SHEIN, and someone will immediately say, "The quality is terrible." And honestly? They're not completely wrong. Over the years, I've ordered things from SHEIN that made me wonder if the item and the product photo had ever met each other. I've received dresses that looked amazing online but arrived looking like they had survived three business days and a thunderstorm. If you've ever ordered something and immediately thought, "Well... this will become a cleaning cloth," then welcome to the club. But after years of shopping on the platform, I realized something important: the secret to SHEIN is not buying everything. The secret is knowing where to shop. As a tall girl living in Japan, finding clothes that fit properly can sometimes feel like an Olympic sport. Sleeves are too short, trousers stop halfway between my ankle and my shin, and finding pieces ...

How to Survive Summer in Japan Without Melting By now, I have survived two Japanese summers and I am currently bracing myself for my third. You would think that after a few years, I would have mastered the art of summer survival. The truth? Every year feels like a new season of a reality show called "Will She Make It?" If you're new to Japan or planning to visit between June and September, allow me to prepare you. Summer in Japan is not the gentle, beachy, Instagram-worthy season that travel brochures sell you. No. Japanese summer is a full-contact sport. The sun wakes up angry. The humidity hugs you like an overexcited relative who refuses to let go. You step outside looking fresh and put together, only to arrive at your destination looking like you've run a marathon in a rainstorm. Yet somehow, every year, we survive. So grab a cold drink, find a fan, and let me share some of the survival tactics I've learned along the way. One of the biggest surprises for many ...

Skeyi & Strobo Fabrik Party: The Heartbeat of Zimbabwe’s Creative Culture There is something incredibly special about spaces that allow young creatives to fully express themselves without fear, judgment, or limitation. In Zimbabwe, one of those spaces is undoubtedly the Skeyi & Strobo Fabrik Party. More than just a convention or event series, Fabrik Party has become one of the country’s leading art, fashion, music, and subculture platforms, giving Zimbabwean creatives a stage to showcase their talent boldly and unapologetically. I have attended the convention a couple of times myself, and every experience left me inspired, amazed, and deeply proud of Zimbabwean creativity. It became one of those places where you walk in expecting a fun event, but leave having discovered photographers, designers, stylists, musicians, visual artists, and underground creatives whose work stays with you long after the event is over. Some of my favourite Zimbabwean creatives today are people I first...

Colour Me Summer: My Japanese Summer Fashion Must-Haves 🌼 There is something about summer in Japan that humbles you very quickly. One minute you are stepping out feeling cute and confident, and the next minute the humidity has turned your carefully styled hair into a survival story. If you know, you know. Japanese summers are no joke. The heat is intense, the humidity is aggressive, and suddenly fashion becomes less about suffering for beauty and more about finding outfits that let you breathe while still serving looks. As we step into summer here in Japan, I have officially decided that this is my season of colour. After spending so much time hiding comfortably in neutrals, blacks, creams, browns, and oversized “safe” outfits, I am ready to flirt with bright yellows, juicy oranges, playful pinks, and every happy colour in between. If the weather is going to stress me anyway, I might as well look like sunshine while experiencing it. This summer, my wardrobe mood board is basically “co...