The Wisdom Carried in Our Bones
The Wisdom Carried in Our Bones by Jesman “Jez” Mutezo Growing up in a large extended family wasn’t just a way of life, it was a symphony of voices, a collection of lived stories passed down like heirlooms. Our house was always full: aunts laughing in the kitchen, uncles debating politics under the guava tree, cousins playing barefoot in the dust, and my grandparents offering a kind of quiet strength that only age and experience can craft. In that lively home, wisdom was never scheduled, it simply spilled into everyday moments. One of the first proverbs I remember hearing from my grandparents was, "Rume rimwe harikombi churu," one man alone cannot surround an anthill. At the time, I didn’t understand the weight of it. But as I’ve journeyed through life, moving to foreign lands and navigating unfamiliar systems, those words echo back with power. I’ve come to know that no one truly makes it alone. Whether it was an old friend offering a job lead, a stranger holding my hand in a...